BIRTHING NEW SOULS TO EARTH – THE LOTUS BIRTH PROCESS
I wanted to take this moment to share what I feel is vitally important information about integrating souls into this time-space matrix or reality.
The following is intended to share not only our own personal experience, but also to deepen understanding of bringing new souls into the organic world, and to give them the best chance of integrating into this third dimension reality.
To understand what this entails we need to explore where a soul actually comes from. Before we incarnate we are ‘waiting’ in a higher dimensional reality, where we are very expanded, unrestricted by the constraints of a body.
In this form, we have perspective over all our combined lifetimes and are excited about coming back to the living library that is Earth. Being on Earth is a window of experimentation for the soul, and is an opportunity to progress very quickly in the higher dimensions based upon our Earthly experiences.
Before we come we set up our conditions and agreements before descending in density to the third dimension, depending upon the soul will depend upon the height from which it descends. I use height only to gain understanding because when working dimensionally you cannot view it as an above construct. All dimensions co-exist in the same space, thus what is actually happening is dropping in vibrational frequency.
Thus in birthing, it is important to be aware that a soul is literally dropping down from a much higher harmonic, one where it is more love, unity, and peace than the harshness of this reality. Thus it is important to know and understand that not only is it important to create a harmonious as possible environment for the baby to enter through the portal of the birth canal into this reality, but also to create a harmonious environment during the terms of the pregnancy.
ALL emotions are felt during the pregnancy, integrated and adopted by the incoming soul as the first of the ancestral imprints collected around the DNA, thus the nature of the relationship between the parents is critical during this developmental period.
For example, any sadness, anger, frustration, jealousy, distrust, resentments, worry or grief, is picked up by the baby in its fetal phase and stored as a layer of programming and conditioning. Any of the above discordant vibrations or any variants actually creates a contraction of the mothers physical DNA and creates the whole system to be discordant and stressed. It is under these conditions that the baby develops less from a place of love and trust and more into fear and distrust.
The actual spiritual fetal integration of the soul starts from the 33rd day to 56th day after fertilization, and so begins the descent into our Universe. Density One refers to the first three dimensions of consciousness, and depending upon the incoming soul it could come from as high as Harmonic Universe Five which are the upper realms or dimensions, these are the pure light and sound fields that are the form holding template that creates reality being stepped down from dimensions 12 – 1.
Some being’s incarnating at this time are coming in with specific templates of these upper realms. They are incredibly evolved spiritual beings. These kids are carrying the form holding templates for the New Earth, or the Golden Age. They carry the coding and seeding to install the new ways or paradigms on Earth.
They need a deserve the best arrival possible to Earth. It is our role as their parents and guardians to protect these precious beings to help them remember who they are, and their role and purpose on the planet, to limit their 3rd dimension conditioning so that they may fulfill their life task without stress or overwhelm.
This starts from conception and especially from feta integration, the internal conditions of the Mother is critical to this, so solving and tidying up any relationship drama is important between parents and others to ensure the love bubble and love harmonic is encased into the process of the soul dropping into the physical vessel.
In terms of the actual birthing process to bring a soul into the world with as little stress of overwhelm as possible is the absolute key for minimizing the impact of the journey from the spiritual dimensions into the physical. This process requires focus and resilience from both parents as the Main Frame Matrix attempts to take out all organic, spiritual processes out of the birthing experience.
Sadly the birthing experience has become cold and clinical and manufactured, and the sacred spiritual component of dropping down and integrating a soul is removed. The whole modern medical process is a factory of delivering physical vessels into the world with as little stress for the medical team as possible.
Very often the Mothers needs and ultimate wellbeing is lost in the system of manufactured and artificial birth, with the whole process as seen as an extraction rather than a ceremony of an incoming soul.
For us, the whole process was about minimizing the need for interface with the mainframe medical system, who want to over analyze, test, probe, and retest as much as possible. We believed in the organic nature and unfolding of life, at the time of conception the seed that is contained in the egg knows EXACTLY WHAT to do and WHEN to do it.
No amount of needless repeated external tests will stop this process of life, sure check-ups are necessary but I do recommend questioning everything that is presented to you from the mainframe. We went for one check-up for Noa and no check-ups for Aurora. Aurora strongly guided us not to enter the medical system.
For Alaya and I, it was a test of our own full trusting the natural organic path and in the trust of the birthing process itself. Both children were birthed at home, without interventions, and for Aurora’s birth, we did a Free birth, whereby Alaya and I did by ourselves, I as the masculine held the container and supported Alaya through her journey of birthing. An incredible experience.
Going back to the medical mainframe, Interfacing with scans and radioactive devices just did not seem to be a pleasant experience for the baby, and certainly placing a needle inside and extracting cells for testing (just for the comfort that we weren’t carrying a down’s syndrome baby) was not an option. If this baby was to be of this template then so be it, we would love, cherish it just the same.
We did not even find our Midwife / medical Doctor’s husband-wife team for Noa until around 6 weeks before his birth. Before that, we trusted our instincts and followed our intuition about what was needed. Aurora the same, we just didn’t feel the need to involve them for her birth, but they were wonderful to have on call.
We interviewed some midwives but none really were of the right vibration for what we were looking for. So we are so happy to meet Angel and Natalia a husband/wife, medical doctor/midwife team on the island in Ibiza. They were both gentle AND energetically intelligent and both big advocates for a home birth.
Since we had navigated OUT of the system we were left to our own instincts, we knew the main ingredient for a healthy baby was LOVE, and lot’s of LOVE. So our main focus was a happy harmonious internal state of LOVE between the two of us.
We also looked after nutrition and made sure that Alaya was getting enough of the right nutrients, with extra prenatal type supplements to ensure that the nutrition was spot on, clean water we have a Kangen water machine so we are blessed that our water is some of the best you can get.
So coming into the birth of Noa we were all set, we had the right team of Angel, Natalia, myself, Alaya and also our dear spiritual family member Sananda whom we flew in to be with us for the birth and join our family. Sananda has the gift of seeing all the dimensions, light and sound fields so was a valuable asset through the whole process.
We had a birthing pool set up in the lounge and a wonderful setting for the whole experience. As the first stages of labor began we set up the field of energy. This is a morphogenetic field of energy I work in events and healing ceremonies that is a portal for higher frequencies. You don’t have to be in the healing arts like I am to create sacred space, simply lighting a candle and connecting to your higher self, the babies’ higher self, and any celestial surgeons supporting the transition for this soul would be perfect.
The labor started around 12.30 at night, in the candlelight with beautiful mantra music playing. This first phase of labor lasted till around 7.30 am when things began stepping up to phase two which is the babies’ delivery through the birth canal. This is when the intensity really picks up.
For any men reading this the full focus needs to be on the relaxation, love, and tenderness for your beloved at this period, she needs your strength, support and needs to feel your love. LOVE is the KEY channel for being the carrier wave for the soul. The soul wants to be met with LOVE and not fear. This is key despite the intensity of what is going on to hold the harmonic of love.
The woman is the main channel of life force during this period and it is during this window that the veils are very thin between worlds, which is why almost everyone expresses that witnessing birth is a very spiritual experience. The very thing that the mainframe wants to disconnect people from.
The woman’s body is miraculous how it moves through adjusting itself to allow a baby to squeeze through the portal of life. The main thing to remember is that a woman’s body is DESIGNED to do this. I’m not going to lie, it is SUPER INTENSE, Roxy stated it was the most difficult experience of her life and the pain was off the charts…
It is however at this time it is critical to remain focused. The benefits of birthing without medication is so huge both for the Mother and Baby. We did not want any pharmaceutical intervention so Roxy deleted this an option, but I do see how mothers can go into hospital with this intention and when this intensity kicks in, it would be easy to yield.
However, the motivation to remain true is giving birth to a happy baby without unnecessary chemicals polluting its system and the absolute clarity that the Mother has after birth. A chemically induced birth put the Mother into a stupor that prevents that immediate bonding after the birth.
Upon Noa’s arrival at 9.33am July 5th Alaya was coherent and sharp when the pain subsides the endorphins have kicked in and there is a natural rush and glow around the new mother, the spiritual energy of just undergoing one of the main initiations of woman’s life, from Maiden to Mother.
My role in this process was in the birthing pool and stabilizing the energy from behind and stroking Alaya to ensure she was as relaxed as possible during the contractions…
Birthing is a similar energy to making love, very special and sacred, it is this energy that is the carrier of the newborn baby. Love brought to put into the womb and brought him out of the womb into the world.
I can’t imagine the energy being like this in a hospital, where it is more cold and clinical, there are incredible advantages to home birth and I believe it is a woman’s right to choose where and how to give birth, and all decisions need to be respected.
In retrospect, Alaya fully admits that she was not as deeply relaxed and in the deep zone required for Noa’s birth. She was able to birth him naturally through personal will and a forcing current of determination.
This left her body a little traumatized and it took some time to recover because Noa was forced out rather than to allow the natural state of her body to ALLOW him to come.
For Aurora’s birth, we both wanted a different experience, for this one we both prepared by diving into hypnobirthing which is an incredible process that brought Alaya to the deep necessary trance states to be able to birth Aurora much more effortlessly and gracefully.
Our only worrisome moment when Alaya could feel that she was not quite aligned into the sweet spot, with her head facing directly down into the birthing canal.
Thankfully Sananda (attending once more) and I energetically showed her the way down into the birthing canal. She was able to follow these energetic cues and turn down into the birth canal. On the next contraction, Alaya felt a ‘plop’ as her head came into place and before we knew it, she was crowning.
At that moment I truly released the most powerful force in the world is a woman’s body in surrender at the time of birth. When all align, mentally, emotionally, energetically there is the state of ‘allowing’. Alaya was able to birth Aurora relatively pain-free compared to how tough Noa was.
The birthing portal is one of the most powerful portals that any woman (and her partner) can enter into. It is such a sacred space. It is a full initiation of all internal imprints and programming and journey in the depths of one’s mental and emotional state.
Birthing naturally is an act of mastering the mind-body-energy triad. I feel it is important that the sacred space be well thought out and the people who are going to enter that space be very well carefully selected. The most important aspect is the absence of fear, having anyone with fear in their system will be a catalyst for complications.
We have seen this time and again in birthing stories, where people have probably in hindsight chosen the wrong configuration of the support team. Every single person who enters that space is contributing to the harmonic frequency of the container. It is this container which greatly influences any woman through this process.
We opted for a LOTUS birth.
Lotus birth is a natural and organic way of dealing with the separation of the placenta. ALL indigenous cultures held a placenta as sacred, it is, in fact, the TREE of LIFE for the baby.
It is infinitely connected to the cosmos and I can confirm is the main energetic feed of life (chakra) for the baby, It is MUCH MUCH MORE than just an organ. It is the exact replica for the baby, no other being is more like you other than your placenta. The placenta is the key Mandela in the creation of life. It is the spiritual hub of creation for the baby. In the New Zealand Maori culture where my roots lie the placenta is once separated is planted in the Marae (village) where the infant will retain it’s a spiritual connection to it.
It is this spiritual and energetic connection that is too often immediately discarded in the modern medical machine, with upon entry to the world the baby has forcibly removed it’s one life long identical twin who is then thrown out as medical waste, or in some case sold to high paying pharmaceutical companies who make expensive face creams for the rich due to its very high stem cell count.
To us, this just didn’t feel good to have it’s main energetic and spiritual life force ruptured and forcibly removed at the moment of birth. We wanted to preserve this both physical and energetic connection for as long as possible so that Noa and Aurora could choose in their own time when they were ready to separate from their primal life current and spiritual life force.
Practically what this means is that we keep the placenta in little bags next to them for as long as they felt they needed it for. Practically according to the books we read this is anywhere from 3 – 10 days. In Noa’s case five days, in Aurora’s three.
Yes, it is a little inconvenient, but the rewards are so massive that it becomes a non-issue. During this time we were extra careful while handling him and had restricted visitors. We want to honor this sacred space and time in these very early days. It is such a special time period as the portal between dimensions remains open for the integration of their consciousness to begin to come into the body.
Cutting the placenta relatively straight away creates the first wounding of separation and abandonment. The feeling of being separate and cut off from Source come through the trauma of the abrupt cutting of the umbilical cord.
From what I understand full lotus born babies are much more connected and inflow than babies that have had their cords cut at birth. So for us, we wanted to give Noa and Aurora the best chance possible of making the transition from the spiritual world into the physical world.
The placenta is honored by most indigenous cultures as being the holy of holies, the most sacred sacraments that are to be cherished and handled carefully with clear intention and care. Immediately after both births, we both ate little of the placenta. They are filled with stem cells and provide immediate recovery for Alaya after each birth.
For Noa, we will buried the placenta in a sacred ceremony in our back yard under our silver fig tree in the center of our garden in Ibiza when we were living there. For Aurora, we used her placenta to make her own future medicine by dehydrating the placenta grounding it down to powder.
For our next babies, we would probably slice a piece of the placenta and put it in alcohol to create tinctures for them as they got older. We felt that burying the placenta creates the deepest connection of safety and belonging on Earth a child can have. Taking a slice will allow the frequency to generate a homeopathic remedy for when the child goes through colds and flu’s, and allow the greatest benefit of their embodiment on Earth by burying the majority of it in the Mother Earth.
I believe on Earth we have consciousness crisis, almost all of humanity is asleep, spirit disconnected from everything else, as soon as we start bringing consciousness to our children and to ourselves we will start seeing as everything being connected and we are part of the living fabric on a living breathing consciousness called Earth.
Making birthing part of a sacred ceremony brings back the magic and reverence for a new life, over the medical and hospital more clinical environment. I think the hospitals and the medical arena is wonderful when things go wrong or are needed in an emergency.
But I don’t believe for a moment they should form the first port of call for the birthing new life. Whenever possible the benefits of home birth and a lotus birth allow the greatest opportunity for a fully integrated sovereign being come through the veil into the physical.
Being relaxed, comfortable and with the right people around and the right ambiance are key ingredients to ensure the smoothest transition for Mother and baby into the world.
I hope this article or piece serves to provide openings to explore for your own decisions regarding bringing in babies into the world and the actual process that happens and our personal story of how we chose to navigate this. Please take only what is relevant for you, but I do hope it helps to see birthing in a new way.
Love and Blessings